I get sick when parents say, "All I want for my children to be happy." My mother, who I think is the wisest person on the Earth, used to say, "I don't care if you're happy. If you're living in Hawaii and your surfing and not contributing to society, that does not make me happy." I always appreciated that because what I think that when you contribute to society and you make the world a better place. You find meaning in what you do, helping people, giving to charity, visiting your grandparents; all these things that we do, the byproduct is happiness. Happiness is not the goal. It's not your right to be happy. It's only your right to find meaning, to make the world a better place. That happiness, is far more than any ice cream sundae makes you in a moment.