Rules are almost always different in both houses. There´s two types of parenting post divorce. There is cooperative parenting where the parents sit down together and decide on bedtime and whether or not there should be soft drinks in the house and whether or not the kids can watch PG movies, etc. That´s cooperative parenting. And then there is also parallel parenting where essentially the parents do and have rules that are different in both houses. It´s interesting. The studies don´t indicate that parallel parenting is detrimental for the children unless one parent criticizes the parenting of the other. So clearly children can learn the rules for soccer are different than the rules of baseball. The rules at dad´s house are different than the rules at mom´s house. Children learn that and they can become resilient around that. We ask parents don´t criticize the other parent´s rules. There can often be more than one way to raise a family and unless the parent is doing something truly detrimental, you can explain to the child that´s the rule at mommy´s house or that´s the rule at daddy´s house. The rule here is different.