I think it's very difficult, in this day and age, for our kids to know what is socially and sexually responsible. I think there is a lot on television that is inappropriate. I think there is a lot they have access to on their computers. I think you've got to instill the basics to them as they are growing up. You have to know what your family values are and what's okay. Is it okay for your daughter to go outside with her bra strap hanging out and her belly button showing? Are you okay with that? You just have to keep the lines of communication open. They need to know what your values are. You need to sit down and tell them. It's very important that you tell them, that you keep talking to them; whether it is awkward or uncomfortable. You just need to calm down and sit down and tell them how you are feeling and tell them why.