My golden nugget for parenting and of care giving – because I am doing both – is being able to spend more time with your loved one. My dear friend Rachel – as I was becoming a caregiver for my mother – I asked her to come over – she was a nurse – and asked her to take a look at my home and see what needed to be changed to make it safer and you know, the different things that I would need to take care of her. And she says, “Linda, we’re going to talk about that later,” she says, “Because that will come naturally for you. You are a loving person already. You did that with your daughter and now I can see that you’re going to do that with your mom.” She says, “But what I want you to do is to just make sure that you spend time with her. Sit and have a cup of tea. Talk. Have fun. Listen. And don’t worry about all the things that you have to do.” So my golden nugget is – whether you’re a parent or whether you’re a caregiver – is to make sure that you’re spending loving and joyful moments with that individual.