Sometimes after experiencing a miscarriage or a traumatic loss your friends and family say the most well meaning things and it comes out the wrong way. For example, somebody may say to you, “I’m so sorry for your loss, but you’re young, you can have another baby.” Right? So that hits you in that way that hurts the most and your feelings are hurt and you’re angry. And when people are saying the most insensitive things, one of the things that you can do is you want to turn around and criticize them, tell them they’re wrong. But instead if you can find a way to think that they are well meaning and their best intentions at heart and sometimes, just because of society norms, they don’t even really know what to say. And just hold in your heart that at the bottom they really love you and you can tell that, “It would really help me, it would really support me if you could say this right now. If you could do this for me right now.” And most of all just really recognize in your heart you can’t change a way a person is going to act. And they may come around and say something insensitive to you again. But really, it’s really about how you deal with the issue or issues. It’s really about how you’re holding that. So if you can hold it from the place of love versus hurt and anger it’ll go a long way towards your healing.