Ending your child's homework struggles

Madeline Levine, PhD psychologist & author, shares advice for parents on how to help their kids end the nightly struggle with homework
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Ending your child's homework struggles

One of the greatest problems that parents are having now is this sort of nightly struggle around homework. I think that when your kid is having trouble with homework you have to figure out why. It's like we want to jump in but what do we do? \ But the real question is – why is your child having trouble? Maybe the work is too hard for them. Maybe they're tired. So we have to know what's going on to make the appropriate change. Most often, not always, but most often, one of the biggest problems is mom is hovering around looking over the shoulder saying, "Did you get that right? You made a mistake." And of course, we're not night teachers. Our kids have day teachers for that. And often the solution is just to have mom back up a little bit and understand, you've passed third grade and it's your child now who has to pass third grade and you're being not so helpful when you constantly think, "I'm going to help my child by looking over everything they did.” Kids need to become independent in doing their own homework.

Madeline Levine, PhD psychologist & author, shares advice for parents on how to help their kids end the nightly struggle with homework


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Madeline Levine, PhD

Psychologist & Author

Madeline Levine, PhD, is a psychologist with close to 30 years of experience as a clinician, consultant and educator. Her New York Times bestseller, The Price of Privilege, explores the reasons why teenagers from affluent families are experiencing epidemic rates of emotional problems.  Her book, Teach Your Children Well, outlines how our current narrow definition of success unnecessarily stresses academically talented kids and marginalizes many more whose talents and interests are less amenable to measurement. The development of skills needed to be successful in the 21st century- creativity, collaboration, innovation – are not easily developed in our competitive, fast-paced, high pressure world. Teach Your Children Well gives practical, research- based solutions to help parents return their families to healthier and saner versions of themselves.

Dr. Levine is also a co-founder of Challenge Success, a project born at the Stanford School of Education. Challenge Success believes that our increasingly competitive world has led to tremendous anxiety about our children’s’ futures and has resulted in a high pressure, myopic focus on grades, test scores and performance. This kind of pressure and narrow focus isn’t helping our kids become the resilient, capable, meaningful contributors we need in the 21st century. So every day, Challenge Success provides families and schools with the practical research-based tools they need to raise healthy, motivated kids, capable of reaching their full potential. We know that success is measured over the course of a lifetime, not at the end of the grading period.

Dr. Levine began her career as an elementary and junior high school teacher in the South Bronx of New York before moving to California and earning her degrees in psychology. She has had a large clinical practice with an emphasis on child and adolescent problems and parenting issues. Currently however, she spends most of her time crisscrossing the country speaking to parents, educators, students, and business leaders. Dr. Levine has taught Child Development classes to graduate students at the University of California Medical Center/ San Francisco. For many years, Dr. Levine has been a consultant to various schools, from preschool through High School, public as well as private, throughout the country. She has been featured on television programs from the Early Show to the Lehrer report, on NPR stations such as Diane Rheems in Washington and positively reviewed in publications from Scientific American to the Washington Post. She is sought out both nationally and internationally as an expert and keynote speaker. 

Dr. Levine and her husband of 35 years, Lee Schwartz, MD are the incredibly proud (and slightly relieved) parents of three newly minted and thriving sons.

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