Advice for the sex talk

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Stephen Wallace: Talking with kids about sex is really important and I found that even in the highly communicative families, families that typically talk to their children about all kinds of risky behavior, stumble when it comes to talking about puberty or about sexuality or sexual decision making. And that’s really unfortunate because it leaves kids at a disadvantage when they’re struggling with some of the most important first time decisions they’ll make as young people. Maybe especially for boys because they really get the short end of the stick when it comes to open and honest communication with parents. Parents tend to talk to girls in much more nuanced ways about those topics. Whereas with boys, they often hear things like just don’t get a girl pregnant. Or here’s a box of condoms. And what kind of message does that send? So it’s critical that parents engage boys and girls with discussions about emerging sexuality. Puberty, which beginning earlier and earlier in young people. And actual sexual decision making to guide the choices that they make. Some of the things they want to touch on are things like saying to your child, it’s your body. You get to decide how to use it. You may feel pressure from other people or see or hear about to engage in sexual behavior but it has to be the right time for you. And ask them open ended questions. What choices do you think are right for you at this time.

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Stephen Gray Wallace, MS Ed

School Psychologist & Author

Stephen Gray Wallace, director of the Center for Adolescent Research and Education (CARE), has broad experience as a school psychologist and adolescent and family counselor. He is also the senior advisor for policy, research, and education at SADD (Students Against Destructive Decisions), an organization he served as national chairman and chief executive officer for more than fifteen years. 

Stephen serves the Cape Cod Sea Camps as a resident camp director and the director of counseling and counselor training and the American Camp Association as a feature magazine writer, media spokesperson and faculty member at its e-Institute for Professional Development, a role he also plays for the American Academy of Family Physicians.

The White House, the American Camp Association, SADD, Camping Magazine, and the Susquehanna University Alumni Association have formally honored Stephen for being a tireless and passionate advocate for youth.

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