The way I deal with sibling rivalry is by -- There is a funny game that I like to play with my children, which actually has a lot of meaning to me. We talk as if we were on different planets. In my planet, I communicate the way I communicate. I perceive things the way I perceive things. My space is my space. My planet communicates with your planet. Then, you are not wrong, you are just a different planet. I enjoy just allowing them to have their experience, not playing that they are different planets, just in every day experience. This is the way I deal with things and this is the way you deal with things. How are we going to come to terms and how are we going to allow each other without making anybody wrong? Nobody is right and nobody is wrong. Either this works or it doesn't, but nobody is right or wrong. It is not that I look for the opportunities to come forward, but I certainly enjoy the process of strengthening the muscle of negotiating and self-honoring. Standing up for your rights and your needs.