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How to Introduce Your New Baby to the Family Pet

When you are a dog owner and it’s time to welcome a brand new (human) member to your family, what is the best way to introduce the two of them? Here are a few tips on how to make this a successful beginning to a valuable friendship.

Plan Ahead for Baby's Arrival

Before you bring your baby home, prepare your pet, if you can:

  • Have your pet spend some time around babies and children. If you don’t have family or friends with children, take your pet to a park or school playground in the months ahead, so that he can become familiar with the scents, actions and sounds of children.
  • Let your pet sniff and explore the baby’s room, toys, and clothes.
  • Think about how your daily schedule may change and try to work those changes into your pet’s day long before baby arrives.
  • If your pet now sleeps in your bed, it’s wise to move him out now. If you plan to have your baby sleep with you, your pet must not be part of the family bed for your baby’s safety, as a pet nuzzling up to a tiny baby could end up in an accident. Even if you don’t plan to bring your baby into your bed, he or she may wind up there anyway ⎯ so to prevent a struggle with an unhappy dog later, make the change now. (You can invite your pet back after baby gets older.)
  • Reduce the amount of time and attention that you give your pet now. No matter how much you love the animal in your house, your new baby will take up a tremendous amount of your time and energy; helping your pet adjust before the fact to the new constraints on your time will help you both later.
  • Once your baby is born, have someone bring home a few articles of baby’s clothing (even a wet diaper) from the hospital so your pet can get acquainted with baby through his keen sense of smell.
  • If your pet isn’t trained to understand the words “No,” “Down,” and “Off,” do that training now. These will be important when you your pet is around your baby and when visitors come to meet your baby. If your dog has any behavior problems, now is the time to take him to a trainer.

 

Bringing Baby Home

When you’re ready to bring your baby into the house for the first time, a few tips can help make a smooth introduction:

  • If your dog typically jumps up on you when you enter the house, have someone else carry the baby into the room. This way you can introduce the two with a pleasant attitude, without disciplining your pet for jumping.
  • Make the first contacts between the two a positive experience. Praise and a few treats will go a long way.

 

New Routines for Everyone

  • Try to work a daily walk into your schedule. The baby will love a walk outside in his sling or stroller, and your dog will enjoy it, too. (It’s also great exercise for you.)
  • Praise your pet whenever he is gentle around the baby; this will encourage a desire to protect your baby.
  • If your dog shows any signs of possession regarding his food, treats, or toys ⎯ such as growling ⎯ break him of it now, before your baby starts to crawl and begins picking up and playing with your dog’s food or toys. Practice taking away your dog’s food dish, bone, or toy when he’s eating or playing. Discourage any negative response. Make him sit and wait. Then given it back with praise. (Also, put the dog’s food and water where Baby can’t get to them.)
  • Remember that animals can be unpredictable. No matter how much you trust your pet, and no matter how well trained he is, you need to be especially careful around the baby. An unintentional jump, scratch, or nibble can harm an infant. Never, ever, ever leave your baby alone with a pet.
  • It’s important that your dog know that his position is lower in the “pack” than the baby. Your dog will be more comfortable when he’s certain of where he stands. Eventually, he may become your baby’s favorite playmate and protector.

With just a few adjustments and consistency with training your pet and baby may be the best of friends for many years to come.

Need more parenting tips? The No-Cry Discipline Solution is full of gentle ways to encourage cooperation without whining, yelling or tears!

 

No-Cry Solution Series Author

Elizabeth Pantley is a parent educator, mother of four, and the author of the now-classic baby sleep book, The No-Cry Sleep Solution, as well as six other books in the series, including The No-Cry Separation Anxiety SolutionThe No-Cry Potty Training SolutionThe No-Cry Discipline Solution, The No-Cry Picky Eater Solution, plus other successful parenting books. She is known worldwide as the practical, reasonable voice of respectful parenting.