Some parents feel like they are too over protective. We live in a fear-based society. Statistics show that crime is actually down, but if we watch the media, we don't see that. We see all the things to be afraid of. Now, bad things do happen. When they do, it's a tragedy. But being over protective is a problem also. Our children need to be competent. They need to feel like they can go out in the world and explore. How can you, as a parent, let them be their individual self and explore, also not have to be so worried all of the time. You have to do their due diligence. If you are going to send them off to someone's house for the night for a sleepover, talk to the parents. Meet the parents. Find out who is going to be at home. Tell your children that no matter what time it is, they can call you. Anytime of day or night, you'll come and pick them up. Give your child a chance to walk to their friends house. Maybe you are somewhere behind watching them, but really build your confidence as they build their confidence. I know that I've been over protective, but I also have learned how to manage my own anxiety, so my kids can grow up in the world and become strong, resilient adults.