Results of the lack of consistent rules in permissive parenting

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Results of the lack of consistent rules in permissive parenting

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A child who's raised in a permissive household tends to have real difficulty with any kind of boundary or structure outside of the home. Typically they've been indulged and mom and dad have done everything they can to avoid any kind of meltdowns, temper tantrums, disruptions, a sad child, an angry child. So the child really never gets a chance to develop the kinds of resources that will help them deal with a much different world, one that doesn't really take into account that they've been pampered and spoiled and not expected to take care of themselves or recover from any kind of upsets. And as these kids begin to grow, their anxiety increases because there's a sense that they're not navigating the world around them as well as their peer group. They don't have the resources. They don't have the confidence. They don't have the experience. They're used to just asking and receiving. Or having someone save them from a difficult situation. Or even making those situations go away altogether.

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Vicki Hoefle

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Vicki Hoefle is a professional parent educator with over 20 years experience teaching parents, educators and caregivers how to raise respectful, responsible and resilient children. Hoefle combines her expertise in Adlerian Psychology and as an International Coaching Federation certified coach to bring parents Duct Tape Parenting, a sustainable and proactive parenting strategy that provides time-tested tools for harvesting a happy and peaceful family life. Her informative and highly engaging presentation style keeps her in demand as a speaker, facilitator and educator. Hoefle is a mother of six and lives in Middlebury, Vermont.

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